What is what to say when a girl asks what you want to do to her?

When a girl asks you "What do you want to do to me?", your response should depend entirely on the context of your relationship and the specific situation. There's no one-size-fits-all answer. Here's a breakdown of considerations:

• Assess the Context: Is this playful banter, serious intimacy, or something in between? Her tone, body language, and the setting will give you clues. Is this happening in a private, intimate setting, or a public, more casual one?

• Honesty & Authenticity: The most important thing is to be genuine. Don't say something you don't mean just to impress her. Reflect on what you truly desire, considering her comfort and boundaries.

• Respect & Consent: Ensure your response is respectful and doesn't pressure her. This is an invitation for a conversation, not a demand. Remember that consent is crucial. Your answer should open the door for her to express her own desires and boundaries. It's not a permission to proceed without her explicit agreement.

• Playful Options: If the context is lighthearted, you could offer a playful or suggestive response, such as:

  • "That depends... what are my options?"
  • "I have a few ideas... but I'm open to suggestions."
  • "Tell me what you want me to do to you." (This shifts the focus back to her desires.)

• Intimate Options: If the context is more intimate, you can express your desires more directly, but still with respect:

  • "I'd love to [specific action], if you're comfortable with that." (e.g., "kiss you slowly," "hold you close," "give you a massage")
  • "I've been thinking about [specific action] with you."

• Avoid Pressure: Never respond in a way that puts pressure on her or makes her feel obligated. Avoid aggressive or dominating language.

• If You're Unsure: If you're genuinely unsure or uncomfortable, it's okay to say:

  • "I'm not sure yet. What are you in the mood for?"
  • "I want to make sure I'm respecting your boundaries. What feels good to you?"
  • "I'm still figuring that out. Tell me more about what you like."

• Active Listening: Pay attention to her reaction. Does she seem receptive, hesitant, or uncomfortable? Adjust your approach accordingly.

Specific Examples (with considerations):

• "I want to kiss you all over." (Intimate, but potentially overbearing if you don't know her comfort level.)
• "I'd love to give you a back massage." (Relaxing and considerate.)
• "I want to see you smile." (Sweet and non-threatening.)
• "I want to make you feel good." (General, but can be a good starting point.)

Ultimately, the best answer is one that is honest, respectful, and tailored to the specific situation and your relationship with the girl. Always prioritize communication and consent.

Here are some linked concepts:

• Respect
• Consent
• Communication
• Boundaries
• Intimacy